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The Reminder for me Today and maybe you?

 Salam walakum wa rahmatuAllahi wa barkatoh,  (Good morning, evening, afternoon) I pray this reaches you in strong deen and eman and good health. How are you and your family doing? How is your deen doing?  We are doing well. I miss Ramadan. So today is Monday and was unable to fast but I really op we can start fasting again.. It really helps to get closer to Allah. 



Frist: We have every intention to continue the podcast, but we are having issues with tech stuff. I will keep you posted when its up and going inshAllah. barakAllahu feek for your sabar 

Today I am starting with a lecture from Abu Uwais? Do you remember him? May Allah forgive him of his sins. amen His lectures were alwasy really good and to the point .  He died in 2004 https://www.abukhadeejah.com/2004-abu-uwais-abdullaah-ahmad-ali-died-rahimahullaah/ (may Allah make all his hard work be a good for him n the hearafter amen) So I am not sure when this lecture was done but it was done before 2004 

https://soundcloud.com/sunnahpublishing/no-shame-by-abu-uwais-abdullah 

Its called If you have no shame...  So in gen. this is a great reminder for myself, and to think this was in 2004 and look at the world and Muslims today... i really wanted to touch on the point of the lecture and add some Quran and sunnah to it. 

Quran

(says about shame and not having shame)

Definition of same (Dictionary)  condition of humiliating disgrace or disrepute: IGNOMINY

Say (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم): "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited you from: Join not anything in worship with Him; be good and dutiful to your parents; kill not your children because of poverty - We provide sustenance for you and for them; come not near to Al-Fawahish (shameful sins, illegal sexual intercourse) whether committed openly or secretly; and kill not anyone whom Allah has forbidden, except for a just cause (according to Islamic law). This He has commanded you that you may understand.(سورة الأنعام, Al-An'aam, Chapter #6, Verse #151) 
  •  Then what is the matter with you that you are divided into two parties about the hypocrites? Allah has cast them back (to disbelief) because of what they have earned. do you want to guide him whom Allah has made to go astray? And he whom Allah has made to go astray, you will never find for him any way (of guidance).
    (سورة النساء, An-Nisaa, Chapter #4, Verse #88)
Hadiths Bukhari



The hadith that was mention in the lecture 
  • Narrated Abu Masud Uqba: The Prophet said, "One of the sayings of the prophets which the people have got, is. 'If you do not feel ashamed, then do whatever you like."  (Book #56, Hadith #690)
  • Narrated Abu Mus'ud: The Prophet said, "One of the sayings of the prophets which the people have got is, 'If you do not feel ashamed, then do whatever you like."  (Book #56, Hadith #691)
  • Narrated Abu Wail: 'Abdullah (bin Mas'ud) said, "None has more sense of ghaira than Allah therefore - He prohibits shameful sins (illegal sexual intercourse, etc.) whether committed openly or secretly. And none loves to be praised more than Allah does, and for this reason He praises Himself." I asked Abu Wali, "Did you hear it from Abdullah?" He said, "Yes," I said, "Did Abdullah ascribe it to Allah's Apostle?" He said, "Yes."  (Book #60, Hadith #158)
  •  Narrated Abdullah bin Mas'ud: Allah's Apostle said, "None has more sense of ghaira than Allah, and for this He has forbidden shameful sins whether committed openly or secretly, and none loves to be praised more than Allah does, and this is why He Praises Himself."  (Book #60, Hadith #161)
  • Narrated 'Alqama: While we were in the city of Hims (in Syria), Ibn Mas'ud recited Surat Yusuf. A man said to him), "It was not revealed in this way." Then Ibn Mas'ud said, "I recited it in this way before Allah's Apostle and he confirmed my recitation by saying, 'Well done!' " Ibn Mas'ud detected the smell of wine from the man's mouth, so he said to him, "Aren't you ashamed of telling a lie about Allah's Book and (along with this) you drink alcoholic liquors too?" Then he lashed him according to the law.  (Book #61, Hadith #523) 

  • Narrated Al-Mughira: Sa'd bin 'Ubada said, "If I saw a man with my wife, I would strike him (behead him) with the blade of my sword." This news reached Allah's Apostle who then said, "You people are astonished at Sa'd's Ghira. By Allah, I have more Ghira than he, and Allah has more Ghira than I, and because of Allah's Ghira, He has made unlawful shameful deeds and sins (illegal sexual intercourse etc.) done in open and in secret. And there is none who likes that the people should repent to Him and beg His pardon than Allah, and for this reason He sent the warners and the givers of good news. And there is none who likes to be praised more than Allah does, and for this reason, Allah promised to grant Paradise (to the doers of good)." 'Abdul Malik said, "No person has more Ghira than Allah."  (Book #93, Hadith #512)

  • Narrated Sahl bin Saud: 'Uwaimir came to 'Asim bin 'Adi who was the chief of Bani Ajlan and said, "What do you say about a man who has found another man with his wife? Should he kill him whereupon you would kill him (i.e. the husband), or what should he do? Please ask Allah's Apostle about this matter on my behalf." Asim then went to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! (And asked him that question) but Allah's Apostle disliked the question," When 'Uwaimir asked 'Asim (about the Prophet's answer) 'Asim replied that Allah's Apostle disliked such questions and considered it shameful. "Uwaimir then said, "By Allah, I will not give up asking unless I ask Allah's Apostle about it." Uwaimir came (to the Prophet ) and said, "O Allah's Apostle! A man has found another man with his wife! Should he kill him whereupon you would kill him (the husband, in Qisas) or what should he do?" Allah's Apostle said, "Allah has revealed regarding you and your wife's case in the Qur'an "So Allah's Apostle ordered them to perform the measures of Mula'ana according to what Allah had mentioned in His Book. So 'Uwaimir did Mula'ana with her and said, "O Allah's Apostle! If I kept her I would oppress her." So 'Uwaimir divorced her and so divorce became a tradition after them for those who happened to be involved in a case of Mula'ana. Allah's Apostle then said, "Look! If she (Uwaimir's wife) delivers a black child with deep black large eyes, big hips and fat legs, then I will be of the opinion that 'Uwaimir has spoken the truth; but if she delivers a red child looking like a Wahra then we will consider that 'Uwaimir has told a lie against her." Later on she delivered a child carrying the qualities which Allah's Apostle had mentioned as proof for 'Uwaimir's claim; therefore the child was ascribed to its mother henceforth.  (Book #60, Hadith #269)
notes from the lecture. 

for every branch of eman that gets removes there is a brance of kuffer. 
  1. exsample: Suchif you remove the branch of truth ~ you find the branch of kuffer lieing. 
  2. Brance of eman to lower your gaze ~ where the branch of kuffer is looking at what ever you want.  
  3. Branch to salat to Allah ~ the branch of kuffer is to leave off salah.
  4. being inmodest and not having shame is a branch of kuffer (disblife) 
this is legistated - This is the word of Allah and the all the phrophets
  • modest and shame is eaither a outwordly or inworldly action . Some people are born with it, some people have to gain, or work on it. 
  • shame and modesty is from eman (faith) it only brings on good. 
  • Allah love and is pleased with these chartrisitics
  • having modesty will make you seek ilm, and rightous actions
  • We must strive 
  • The hadith has been explained with two diffrance types 
1. it comes as a warning 
its an order, if there is a matter that would not have same and is not shameful then do it, and its not bad behavior , then do it. 
                            and you dont have shame to stop doing the haram! THEN DO IT
The one who has no shame modestythere is no good in that individual 

                                            Its a warning and threat
  • do it and you will be held accountable
  • Allah says taste it (the hell fire( hast is hell fire its a threat
          • you can not imagine the hell fire exspicilly if you have no fear.... Go ahead. 
        • if you dont have shame and modesty you will meet the hell fire your actions will cause this.. 
      • * woman * take from the mothers of the belivers (Aishia and khadijah) mother as exsamples modesty/piouness and shame.. 
  • get your self togeather
      • remember ytour self and close family
          • do what you will but then you will be see distruction
                • you will be humiliation 
          • Allah chastiment
  • we dont have enough shame to protect us from Allah rath
my thoughts
This is just proof on why we need islam. SubahnAllah can you imagine .. The things that they went through at the time of the Phrophet Muhammd (peace and blessings be upon him) and if we relfect today.. are they worse? maybe .. but Islam is the solution for not only for the time of Muhammad but for all of them and all of man kind. I do see and heard alot well, islam is not for us today. They didnt know what as going to happen... Which how can we belive Allah is all knowing didnt know we would be sitting here with the fitnah we are today? we couldnt.. this is kuffer. but instead Islam Quran and Sunnah is the solution for all our soceity issues. may Allah make it easy for us to learn and implament them amen.  I pray and beg Allah that He guides, protects and helps us all in this life and the next. may he gather us in good and protect us all from evil. May he forgive us for our sins .......................................................................................................................................................................................... and have mercy on us, may he protect us from our self, our desiers and nafs, protect our children and remove all our bad chartrisitcs and give us , make it easy to have good chartrisitcs . amen


I pray that you benifited. leave a comment and tell me your thoughts on the lecture. 

barakAllahu feek for your time and kindness 
with all my senserity 
The vail family


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